tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393197823271894726.post3378788502333465994..comments2023-07-28T15:53:32.060-07:00Comments on A Decent Little Cottage: Accept HimUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393197823271894726.post-35628101222138662102010-05-18T16:35:59.141-07:002010-05-18T16:35:59.141-07:00A few years ago I was in a massage session complai...A few years ago I was in a massage session complaining about all the things that I had to make sure my husband did or he wouldn't do them. My massage Therapist said, "So, what if they don't happen?" The control freak in me sputtered, but then I calmed and really took that to heart. And I stopped nagging and correcting and telling him what to do (except when I slip up occasionally). And it's true, what you say! He wants to do those things anyway, and he does them. He's more faithful in his fatherly duties now that I've stopped telling him what those duties are. <br />Thanks for such a great post!Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06758454005028176334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393197823271894726.post-44124020242174479812010-05-18T14:29:01.297-07:002010-05-18T14:29:01.297-07:00I totally agree. Before i was married my mom had ...I totally agree. Before i was married my mom had me read The proper care and feeding of husbands by Dr. Laura Slesinger (spelling?) It was a really good book that made me realize that men have all of the emotional needs that we have, they just hide them or show them in different ways. It is important for women to support their husbands with all of their emotional needs and wants otherwise they get unhappy and will sometimes go somewhere else to get those needs fulfilled. i am glad that you and your awesome hubby appreciate and love each other! Yah for happy Families! :)Bass Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09848073587832423128noreply@blogger.com